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Come home to yourself.  Come home to each other.

Simply put, I am here to help you talk about sex and to live your best sex life.

I provide expertise working with couples and with individuals. My coaching style is to create safety, open-communication and a deep transformational experience. My approach is body-centered which connects you to your innate capacity for pleasure, connection and intimacy. I’m comfortable talking about all things related to sex and relationships. And, in fact, I doubt that you could bring me something I haven’t heard before! Each individual and couple brings with them their own unique story of their sexual journey. I honor and am humbled by the experiences clients have shared with me.

Through my experience as a professional Sex and Relationship Coach, I have designed an exclusive method to help clients achieve their goals. This method incorporates the Erotic Blueprints, understanding stress and erotic stress responses, learning methods to self-soothe and couple-soothe during upsets, learning skills of attunement and sexual communication, creating rituals for safety and connection and utilizing practices to increase arousal and sexual pleasure. We also transform unconscious patterns and shadows that are keeping you from having the sex you crave. With my background in trauma healing I can help clients find safety and calm in their bodies, so we can find pleasure and arousal. And I have created a system for creating safety in-the-moment during sexual experiences within partnership. Our work together can include EFT (Emotional Freedom Technique), EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing) and somatic approaches including Somatic Experiencing.

In Sex and Relationship Coaching I love to bring in biohacking techniques and sex-tech (technology designed to enhance sexual experiences) when desired. And, as a Sexological Bodyworker, I incorporate breath work, movement, sound and touch to increase pleasure and reach ecstatic states.

I offer Sex, Relationship, and Erotic Blueprint Coaching for couples and individuals in person in the San Francisco Bay Area, and virtually by phone and Zoom Video Conferencing with people around the world. I welcome and work with people of all gender identities and sexual orientations.

Why Hire Me As A Sex, Relationship and Erotic Blueprint Coach?

To create real and lasting transformation! You hire a personal trainer to have more effective workouts, meet your fitness goals and have accountability to keep showing up even when it feels difficult. You hire me, a Sex, Relationship and Erotic Blueprint Coach for similar reasons. Sex, Relationship and Erotic Blueprint Coaching is a specialized field with specialized training. Hiring me as your Sex Coach will provide the expertise to get you on the fast-track to living the sex life your dreams.

“Sex is part of personal development. Sex and intimacy are a part of health and wellness. And, through exploring your sex and relational life, you can have the deepest transformation in both yourself and in your partnership.”